Friday, January 15, 2010

"My First Thought Was 'Let Me Die.'"

From Stuart Cunliffe's blog comes an inspiring story about surviving shock and despair, about overcoming difficulties and about the hope generated for many with any life well-lived.

{A year ago] I wrote here about Daniel James, paralysed from the waist down after an accident in a rugby scrum, who committed suicide, and Matt Hampson, confined to a wheelchair and needing a ventilator to breathe after an accident in a rugby game, who does charity work, coaches youngsters, writes a newspaper column and has his own website.


Now here's a story of another young man injured in a rugby game that will warm the cockles of your heart.


Matt King, a 17-year-old from a village near Biggleswade in Bedfordshire, was 20 seconds into his first professional rugby match when another player accidentally kneed him in the neck.
"I knew I had broken my neck straight away," said Matt. "The paramedics were asking me to move my toes and I couldn't. It was completely terrifying. "My first thought was 'Let me die,' because my vision of what my life would be like was awful. That was the worst time of my life. I felt and experienced things that I wouldn't wish on any human being."

Matt is permanently paralysed from the neck down and depends on a ventilator to breathe.


During nine months in Stoke Mandeville Spinal Unit he realised he was still young and decided if he was to lead a meaningful life he needed an education.
He returned to school and gained A grades in A-level history and AS geography. He went to Hertfordshire University and graduated with a first class law degree.

He became the first quadraplegic to complete the New York Marathon, using an electric wheelchair with a steering device he controlled with his chin and raising £10,000 for charity.


Now 22 years old, Matt has been offered a training contract with a top London firm of solicitors specialising in personal injury claims. Said Julian Chamberlayne, the firm's training principal: "The way he has overcome his disability is incredible and his razor-sharp intellect will make him an asset to the firm."
He starts there next year after he finishes a legal practice course at the university.

Says his mother Glenda: "We never believed he would get this far. We are very proud of him. He never fails to amaze us with what he's going to do next."